My mom mentioned something a few months ago about wanting to invite her daughters on a special mother-daughter trip somewhere in Europe and of course I hopped right on that and shortly thereafter we had booked tickets for us to travel to Italy together. We spent two weeks in Italy (4/5 to 4/19) and it was wonderfully relaxing and beautiful. Kim and I were spoiled with great food and wine and the three of us traveled together really well.
I'd like to write more about Italy, but I almost want to share a very important update about my immediate family. The night before I left for Italy we got a call that Charlie was being removed from his sister's home and asking us if we would take him, which of course we did. As much as I felt happy that we could be there for him, I felt really, really awful about the fact that I was leaving Tori with three kids for two weeks. Charlie was coming that next morning (after I was gone) and we didn't have a crib, clothes, food, a car seat, etc. So we had lots of scrambling that night for sure.
The bad news is that Tori had a pretty rough two weeks. Our kids were sicker than they have ever been before and even Tori got really sick. I'm talking lots and lots of vomiting -- in beds, on carpets, couches, and everywhere in between. Taking care of three little kids in excellent health would have been challenging enough, but with her being sick it was just really tough. There's just no way I would have been able to deal with all that she did.
The good news is that (1) Charlie is WAY easier now than he was when he was younger. He's just a much happier baby and doesn't need to be held every moment, especially because now he sits up on his own and can interact with Skip and Zadie more. And (2), we had an array of friends and co-workers who totally rallied to help Tori out and come over in the mornings and evenings and weekends. I will write more later about that, but I so appreciate everyone's help with that. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
We really don't know what is going to happen regarding Charlie's placement. We are hopeful that we will get to keep him, but we're really not sure and we just want to be focused on providing a happy and loving home for him. We love him and want the very best for him.